Saturday, December 30, 2017

Happy New Year Jazz for 2018

A bit of New Year jazz music to warm your heart in this 'freezy' beginning of 2018

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IitT37CnbD0

Enjoy

Dr. Pierre Milot, Ph.D., Ph.D. (tc)
Life Transitions Counsellor 
Grief Recovery Specialist - Clinical Hypnotherapist 
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Thursday, December 28, 2017

Power Up Your Life & Make Stress Work 4 You: excerpt # 14

Relaxation method focused on heartbeats

Comfortably sit or lye down, close your eyes and direct your attention to the sound and noises around you without trying to identify any of them.  Repeat the following suggestion: "As of now, and throughout this relaxation, I will remain aware of everything that is going on around me, and this will help me to deepen my relaxation/  Furthermore, any sounds or noises that could arise suddenly will nt make me jump, but will instead help me to relax even more."

Now, focus your attention on your heartbeat.  Once you've locates a strong heartbeat (it could be anywhere in your body), make a conscious effort to redirect the feeling of this heartbeat towards different parts of your body, beginning with your feet.  Once you feel the beat in your feet, repeat mentally over and over the following suggestion: "from now on and more an more with each heart beat, my feet are becoming calm and relax".  Do not forget as you do this, to imagine a comfortable growing feeling of heaviness as you relax your body parts.  Repeat the same with all the other areas of your body, ie: calves, thighs, buttocks, shoulders, arms, hands, neck, head, etc, making sure of course to adjust the suggestions accordingly: "from now on and more and more with each heartbeat, my calves - thighs - legs, etc, are becoming calm and relax".

Summary

In a sitting or lying position, close your eyes and focus your attention on your external environment      while mentally suggesting to yourself that all the sounds and the noises you hear will help you relax.

Direct your attention on your heartbeats until you feel them strongly

Direct your attention to the different parts of your body in order to again locate a strong heartbeat and repeat the following suggestion: "From now on and more and more with each heartbeat, my feet or  my hands or my legs, etc, become calm and relaxed."

 Once you've gone through every parts of your body, open your eyes, take two or three deep breaths, stretch and get up slowly.

Practice this exercise for about 15 minutes as a follow up to one of the breathing techniques recommended in this program.

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Dr. Pierre Milot, Ph.D., Ph.D. (tc)
Life Transitions Counsellor 
Grief Recovery Specialist - Clinical Hypnotherapist
Tel: 613.774.4389
Website: http://www.coaching4life.ca


Sunday, December 24, 2017

Foster Brooks the Comedian. A Bio.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foster_Brooks

Dr. Pierre Milot, Ph.D., Ph.D. (tc)
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Dean Martin & Foster Brooks the best drunk ever

What happens when you have too much eggnog at Xmas.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9A6FHYTXbPY&list=PL6QcbkMJ-KZ2VP__XFUaVACh0LEyrTocc&t=4s&index=1
Enjoy

Dr. Pierre Milot, Ph.D., Ph.D. (tc)
Life Transitions Counsellor 
Grief Recovery Specialist - Clinical Hypnotherapist 
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Marry Christmas from The European Jazz Trio

Merry Christmas everyone
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2T99SR09TY4&t=1410s

Enjoy

Dr. Pierre Milot, Ph.D., Ph.D. (tc)
Life Transitions Counsellor 
Grief Recovery Specialist - Clinical Hypnotherapist 
Tel: 613.774.4389


Thursday, December 21, 2017

Beautiful Christmas Piano Music

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3UeLLufxTCk

Enjoy

Dr. Pierre Milot, Ph.D., Ph.D. (tc)
Life Transitions Counsellor 
Grief Recovery Specialist - Clinical Hypnotherapist 
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Dying With Dignity Canada: An Overview

Life is not all about living, but also about dying.  Not just dying, but dying with dignity.
As of now, I will start posting news about this wonderful. humanitarian organization.

Would it not be great that when our time comes, when stricken by a terminal disease, we could have the choice to make it easy for us and our loved ones to depart this earth in peace and serenity?

Dying With Dignity Canada is the national not-for-profit organization committed to improving quality of dying, protecting end-of-life rights, and helping Canadians avoid unwanted suffering.

  • We defend human rights by advocating for assisted dying rules that respect the Canadian Constitution and the Charter of Rights and Freedoms.
  • We provide personal support to adults suffering greatly from a grievous and irremediable medical condition who wish to die on their own terms.
  • We educate Canadians about all of their legal end-of-life options, including the constitutional right to medical assistance in dying (MAID), and the importance of advance care planning.
  • We support healthcare practitioners who assess for and provide MAID.
For more info please visit their website at: 

Dr. Pierre Milot, Ph.D., Ph.D. (tc)
Life Transitions Counsellor 
Grief Recovery Specialist - Clinical Hypnotherapist 
Tel: 613.774.4389


Tuesday, December 19, 2017

Rising From The Ashes of Loss, My Voyage Through Grief: excerpt # 35

Chapter 9

Post Loss
Anger - Depression - Boredom - Letting go of the old attachments, creating a new identity, reinventing myself, redirecting released energies towards new goals 
May to August 2011                                                                                                    
My crushing loneliness
Although acting out my pain with my new toy brings some momentary relief, making a fool of myself driving my caddie like a maniac is not going to solve the issue and can only get me into deep trouble.  The loneliness and the boredom I feel is profoundly rooted and although I have come a long way in positively managing my grief, it is still not over and I feel help is needed.  Well, not help, I prefer the word support.  My sick sense of independence will not allow me to break down and ask for help, I don't know, I've always been like that, it's a thing with me.  Another damn issue I'll have to work on eventually.  
I have never been a social beast as they say, I'm more of the semi-loner type sitting by myself in a corner observing  people going on about their business.  So joining social groups and the likes does not appeal to me.  A therapist?  Whoa!  The mere thought of it gives me the creeps.  My ego will not suffer it, no dice.  Then, as I am cogitating on the matter, the word BFO comes to mind.  I remember reading about the Bereaved Families of Ontario, a non-profit organization dedicated to supporting grieving people who are going through the difficult period of losing a loved one.   I make arrangements to meet with them.  This turns out to be one of the best moves I ever made.
My first contact with the grieving group
The place is small, the atmosphere warm and friendly.  E., the coordinator makes me feel at ease and seems to understand my grief instantly, even just after a short talk upon my arrival.  What a relief.  I am then invited to join one of their many support groups which consist of people sitting in a circle around a facilitator who's task is to encourage the participants to express their feelings about their losses.  I am so enthusiastic about the whole process that I decide on the spot to become a volunteer facilitator myself.  Not everyone can become a facilitator of course and I  have to fill out a bunch of forms and pass an interview to evaluate if I fit the psychological profile required to take on this challenging task.  I receive a passing grade and I am scheduled for the next training course that is to take place in the following spring.  Meanwhile, part of my education will be to attend the support groups a couple of times a month and will at the same time offer me the support I need.  I leave the place with a good feeling and enjoy a short reprieve from the stabbing knife in my guts.


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Grief Recovery Specialist - Clinical Hypnotherapist
Tel: 613.774.4389
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Friday, December 15, 2017

Power Up Your Life & Make Stress Work 4 You: excerpt # 13

CHAPTER 5

Countering stress with adequate nutrition
We all know the expression: "You are what you eat" and that is truer for a stressed out person.  The purpose of this segment of the program is to offer participants a way to ensure that their already overtaxed nervous system is well nourished to provide maximum resistance to stress.

Generally, a good diet is rich in whole grains, seeds and nuts, vegetables and fruit, dairy (if they are well tolerated) to which we add proteins such as fish, chicken, pork, eggs tofu, etc.  It goes withour saying that these products must, as much as possible, be without artificial preservatives, dyes or chemicals flavourings.  The latter will, in the long run exhaust and contaminate the metabolism, thus rendering it more vulnerable to diseases.  Ideally, certified organic products should be favored.

As far as food supplements are concerned, adding vitamins C, D, B, calcium, (with magnesium and zinc for better absorption) to the diet is important.  A normal diet should provide the daily-required doses of these vitamins.  In an urgent stress situation, an increase dose of these vitamins would be beneficial.

Another important action to take is to reduce the consumption of all caffein containing products., since they stimulate the nervous system.  Therefore, coffee, chocolate and colas should be consumed with moderation.  Alcohol must also be consumed with respect and tobacco of course must be completely banned for obvious reasons.

Managing proteins and carbohydrates

We all have electrical and neurological pathways; one is to wake us up and the other one to help induce sleep.

Tha adrenaline pathway, which keeps us active, is stimulated by high protein food, while the indolamines pathway which promotes idleness and predisposes us to sleep, is triggered by the ingestion of carbohydrates.

An animal protein meal can provide up to five hours of energy while a meal consisting primarily of carbohydrates only provides two hours of energy.  Therefore in the light of all of this and in an effort to reduce neural activity due to stress, logic dictates that meals should organized as follows: breakfast and lunches should be consist mainly of proteins and dinners should favor carbohydrates such as fruits and vegetables and light on simple sugars.

Personally, I agree with the old adage that breakfast is the most important meal of the day, particularly when it comes to stress management.  As the old saying goes: 'Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and supper like a pauper.

To prove this point, a study done by the Centre for Health Sciences of the University of California (UCLA) observed approximatively seven men and women who never or almost nevet ate breakfast.  The study showed that the mortality rate was 40% higher for men and 28% for women compared to those who ate breakfast regularly.  Other researches also demonstrated that those who skipped breakfast did not assimilate calcium and vitamin C as well throughout the day.  In addition, they also established that the typical behaviour of these same people was to consume sweets more liberally.

The main idea when it comes to nutrition in relation to short-term stress management is to reduce the ingestion of proteins and increase carbohydrates.  On the contrary, under continuous and long-term stress, it is recommended to increase protein consumption slightly and to reduce carbohydrates.

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Dr. Pierre Milot, Ph.D., Ph.D. (tc)
Life Transitions Counsellor - Clinical Hypnotherapist - Life Coach
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Thursday, December 14, 2017

Rising From The Ashes of Loss, My Voyage Through Grief: excerpt #34

More chemotherapy: part 2
Soon after her sessions began though, another complication arose; the chemo was not eliminating the ascites fast enough and Louise was suffering, more than a little I might add.  Something had to be done and fast. Modern technology was once more solicited and came to the rescue successfully.  An 'AbdominX' was inserted to help evacuate the ascites from Louise’s tummy without the use of that awful, almost medieval torture apparatus previously used in the emergency room. Thank God for that.  
Normally used to drain fluids from the lungs of cancer patients, then called a ‘PleurX', the unit had been adapted to suck the ascites from the stomach area and it was doing a great job.  It consisted again of a tube (but larger than the one used for the PIC line) that was inserted through the stomach lining and went directly into the areas where the ascites lay.  Twice a week at first, a nurse would come home to drain the fluid from Louise’s stomach.   Over the weeks, the chemo did its work, the ascites level went down so much that the drainage had to be done only once a week and eventually stopped as Louise’s condition finally stabilized.  After she was feeling better, I could not refrain myself from joking about the fact that I though she looked like a creature from outer space with all these wires coming out of her body, a few more springs  and a metal cap on her head and voila, your perfect ET.  She was a good sport about it and didn’t mind my juvenile poking as it acted as an efficient stress buster for us.
All through this period, a zillion things happened and I’d go nuts trying to detail them all.  Suffice it to say that Louise was in a period of remission and we were on an upswing.  Of course there were the occasional little blips like when she had to be rehydrated.  Picture this; Louise was already wired up with a PIC line rolled up and taped under her armpit, an ‘AbdomineX' rolled up and taped on her stomach, and now she had to sit, lie and walk around to her numerous appointments with some kind of battery operated pump containing a rehydrating solution that was shot through her veins with the help of more tubes and needles stuck in her hand (the PIC line could not be used on this one).  The whole damn apparatus was hanging inconveniently by her side on a strap looped around her shoulder and had to be removed and repositioned each time she got dressed or had to put on that ridiculous 'try-to-not-show-your-ass' hospital gown before each tests, and there were more than a few, trust me!  I tell you, she looked like a zombie out of a scary movie and if the situation was not so serious, it would have been hilarious.    
But aside from those little bumps in the road, things were good and both the chelation and chemotherapy treatments were following their course smoothly.  The side effects from the chemo, blisters between Louise’s finders and ulcers in her mouth were minimal and somewhat manageable without too much discomfort.  Of course, she lost her hair a second time and head scarves were once more in fashion. It was a busy period travelling several times a week to Ottawa for two different treatments, but her energy was increasing by the weeks and we felt more and more confident that we could beat the monster.  
Louise always had this dream about owning a knitting wool store and since she was doing so well with her treatments, I decided to support her and do everything I could to help put the project together.  After preparing a simple and easy business and marketing plan, I set out to convert the country kitchen of our small house into a cute little store and ordered the required products for sale.  I even modified our wrap around veranda in a way that she could exhibit her merchandise outside during the week ends.  We called it 'The Store on a Porch'.  It looked great, inviting, held good promises of success and Louise was happy which was worth a million dollars to me.  "Will she be able to enjoy it a long time though?" I questioned and I truly hoped that the feeling of dread rattling my guts was just a figment of my imagination.
October 9, 2009                                                                                                         
The cancer is gone...for now
Louise and I were sitting nervously on one of the comfy leather couches spread out neatly in the huge hall of the 'Critical Care Building' adjacent to the 'Ottawa Hospital's Cancer Centre'.  My hands were shaking with anticipation as I prepared to read Louise’s latest scan report we had just picked up at the administration office.   The look I gave her after perusing the results said it all and with happy smiling faces, we jumped up with joy and 'high fived' the moment; no more traces of cancer could be detected!
Little did we know then that sadly this marked the beginning of the end.

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Saturday, December 9, 2017

Rodney Dangerfield's Bio Part 2: The Best Documentary Ever


For Rodney's fans: sit down, this is the long version.
The guy who never gets 'no respect'.  The true side of Dangerfield.
"Comedy Triumphs Over Tragedy".  Great video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WI-zE1dalf4

Enjoy

Friday, December 8, 2017

Rodney Dangerfield. Comedy born out of Tragedy. A bio.

Rodney Dangerfield

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Rodney Dangerfield
Rodney Danagerfield 1972-1.jpg
Dangerfield performing in 1972
Birth nameJacob Cohen
BornNovember 22, 1921
Deer Park, New York, U.S.
DiedOctober 5, 2004 (aged 82)
Westwood, Los Angeles, California, U.S.
MediumStand-upfilmtelevision
NationalityAmerican
Years active1940–1949, 1956–2004
GenresDepressionhuman sexualityageingdeadpanself-deprecationalcoholism
SpouseJoyce Indig (m. 1949–div. 1962; m.1963–div. 1970)
Joan Child (m. 1993; his death 2004)
Children2
SignatureRodney Dangerfield Signature.svg
Websiterodney.com
Rodney Dangerfield (born Jacob Cohen, November 22, 1921 – October 5, 2004)[5] was an American stand-up comedian, actor, producer and screenwriter known for the catchphrase "I don't get no respect!" and his monologues on that theme. He is also remembered for his 1980s film roles, especially in Easy MoneyCaddyshack, and Back to School.

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Early life[edit]

Dangerfield was born in Babylon, in Suffolk CountyLong Island, New York.[5] He was the son of Jewish parents, Dorothy "Dotty" (Teitelbaum) and the vaudevillian performer Phil Roy (Phillip Cohen). His mother was born in Hungary.[6] Dangerfield's father was rarely home; Rodney would normally see him only twice a year. Late in life, Rodney's father begged him for forgiveness, and Rodney obliged.[7]
After his father abandoned the family, his mother moved him and his sister to Kew Gardens, Queens, and he attended Richmond Hill High School, where he graduated in 1939. To support himself and his family, he sold newspapers and ice cream at the beach, and delivered groceries.[7]
At the age of 15, he began to write for stand-up comedians, and he himself began to perform at a resort in Ellenville, New York,[8] at the age of 19 under the name Jack Roy,[9] to which he legally changed his name.[10] He struggled financially for nine years, at one point performing as a singing waiter until he was fired, and also working as a performing acrobatic diver before giving up show business to take a job selling aluminum siding to support his wife and family. He later said that he was so little known then that "at the time I quit, I was the only one who knew I quit!"

Career[edit]

Early career[edit]

In the early 1960s he started down what would be a long road toward rehabilitating his career as an entertainer, still working as a salesman by day. He divorced his first wife Joyce in 1961, and returned to the stage, performing at many hotels in the Catskill Mountains, but still with minimal success. He fell into debt (about $20,000 by his own estimate), and couldn't get booked. As he would later joke, "I played one club—it was so far out, my act was reviewed in Field & Stream."[11]
He came to realize that what he lacked was an "image"—a well-defined on-stage persona that audiences could relate to, and that would distinguish him from similar comics. Returning to the East Coast, after being shunned by the premier comedy venues, he began to develop a character for whom nothing goes right.
He took the name Rodney Dangerfield, which had been used as the comical name of a faux cowboy star by Jack Benny on his radio program at least as early as the December 21, 1941, broadcast, and later as a pseudonym by Ricky Nelson on the TV program The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriet. The Benny character, who also received little or no respect from the outside world, served as a great inspiration to Dangerfield while he was developing his own comedy character. The "Biography" program also tells of the time Benny visited Dangerfield backstage after one of his performances. During this visit Benny complimented him on developing such a wonderful comedy character and style. However, Jack Roy remained Dangerfield's legal name,[12] as he mentioned in several interviews. During a question-and-answer session with the audience on the album No Respect, Dangerfield joked that his real name was Percival Swetwater.

Career surge[edit]

Dangerfield's one-liner style of comedy
  • "My fan club broke up. The guy died."
  • "Last week my house was on fire. My wife told the kids, 'Be quiet, you'll wake up Daddy."'
  • "I was ugly, very ugly. When I was born, the doctor smacked my mother."[5]
On Sunday, March 5, 1967, The Ed Sullivan Show needed a last-minute replacement for another act,[13] and Dangerfield became the surprise hit of the show.
Dangerfield began headlining shows in Las Vegas and made frequent encore appearances on The Ed Sullivan Show.[14] He became a regular on The Dean Martin Show and appeared on The Tonight Show a total of 35 times.[15] One of his quips as a standup comedian was, "I walked into a bar the other day and ordered a drink. The bartender says, 'I can't serve you.' I said, 'Why not? I'm over 21!' He said, 'You're just too ugly.' I said as always, 'Boy I tell you, I get no respect around here'." The "no respect" phrase would come to define his act in the years that followed.
In 1969, Rodney Dangerfield teamed up with longtime friend Anthony Bevacqua to build the Dangerfield's comedy club in New York City. Rodney now had a venue in which to perform on a regular basis, without having to constantly travel. The club became a huge success. Dangerfield's has been in continuous operation for over 40 years.[16] Dangerfield's was the venue for several HBOshows which helped popularize many standup comics, including Jerry SeinfeldJim CarreyTim AllenRoseanne BarrRobert TownsendJeff FoxworthySam KinisonBill HicksRita RudnerAndrew Dice ClayLouie AndersonDom Irrera and Bob Saget.[citation needed]

Rodney Dangerfield's 1980 comedy album No Respect.
His 1980 comedy album, No Respect, won a Grammy Award.[17] One of his TV specials featured a musical number, "Rappin' Rodney", which would appear on his 1983 follow-up album, Rappin' Rodney. In December 1983, the "Rappin' Rodney" single became one of the first Hot 100 rap records, and the associated video was an early MTV hit.[18] The video featured cameo appearances by Don Novello (aka Father Guido Sarducci) as a last rites priest munching on Rodney's last meal of fast food in a styrofoam container and Pat Benatar as a masked executioner pulling a hangman's knot. The two appear in a dream sequence where Dangerfield is condemned to die and doesn't get any respect even in Heaven, as the gates close without his being permitted to enter.

Career peak[edit]

Though his acting career had begun much earlier in obscure movies like The Projectionist (1971),[8] Dangerfield's career peaked during the early 1980s, when he began acting in hit comedy movies.
One of Dangerfield's more memorable performances was in the 1980 golf comedy Caddyshack, in which he played a nouveau riche developer who was a guest at a golf club and began shaking up the establishment of the club's old guard. His role was initially smaller, but because he and fellow cast members Chevy Chase and Bill Murray were so deft at improvisation, their roles were greatly expanded (much to the chagrin of some of their castmates).[19] His appearance in Caddyshack led to starring roles in Easy Money and Back To School. Unlike his stand-up persona, his comedy film characters were portrayed as successful and generally popular—if still loud, brash and detested by the wealthy elite.
Throughout the 1980s, Dangerfield also appeared in a series of commercials for Miller Lite beer, including one where various celebrities who had appeared in the ads were holding a bowling match whose score became tied. After a bearded Ben Davidson told Rodney, "All we need is one pin, Rodney", Dangerfield's ball went down the lane and bounced perpendicularly off the head pin, landing in the gutter without knocking down any of the pins.
In a change of pace from the comedy persona that made him famous, he played an abusive father in Natural Born Killers in a scene for which he wrote or rewrote all of his own lines.[20]
Dangerfield was rejected for membership in the Motion Picture Academy in 1995 by the head of the Academy's Actors Section, Roddy McDowall.[21] After fan protests the Academy reconsidered, but Dangerfield then refused to accept membership.
Dangerfield appeared in an episode of The Simpsons titled "Burns, Baby Burns" wherein he played a character who is essentially a parody of his own persona, Mr. Burns's son Larry Burns. He also appeared as himself in an episode of Home Improvement.
Dangerfield also appeared in the 2000 Adam Sandler film Little Nicky, playing Lucifer, the father of Satan (Harvey Keitel) and grandfather of Nicky (Sandler).
He was recognized by the Smithsonian Institution, which put one of his trademark white shirts and red ties on display. When he handed the shirt to the museum's curator, Rodney joked, "I have a feeling you're going to use this to clean Lindbergh's plane."[22]
Dangerfield played an important role in comedian Jim Carrey's rise to stardom. In the 1980s, after watching Carrey perform at the Comedy Store in Los Angeles, Rodney signed Carrey to open for his Las Vegas show. The two would tour together for about two more years.[23]

Personal life[edit]

Dangerfield was married twice to Joyce Indig. Together, the couple had two children: son Brian Roy (born 1949) and daughter Melanie Roy-Friedman. From 1993 until his death, he was married to Joan Child.[24]
In 1980, Rodney shared an apartment on Manhattan's Upper East Side with a housekeeper, his poodle, Keno, and his closest friend of 30 years, Joe Ancis.[25] Joe was also friend of and major influence on Lenny Bruce, and was a surrealistically fast and funny man who could never perform in front of strangers.[26]
Dangerfield resented being confused with his on-stage persona. Although his wife Joan described him as "classy, gentlemanly, sensitive and intelligent,"[27] he was often treated like the loser he played. In his 2004 autobiography, It's Not Easy Bein' Me: A Lifetime of No Respect but Plenty of Sex and Drugs (ISBN 0-06-621107-7), which was released posthumously, he confessed to being a longtime marijuana smoker. The book's original title was My Love Affair With Marijuana.[28]
Although Dangerfield was raised Jewish, he called himself an atheist during an interview with Howard Stern on May 25, 2004. Dangerfield added that he was a "logical" atheist.[29]

Later years and death[edit]


Dangerfield's headstone at Westwood Village Memorial Park Cemetery
On November 22, 2001 (his 80th birthday), Dangerfield suffered a mild heart attack while backstage at the Tonight Show. During Dangerfield's hospital stay, the staff were reportedly upset that he smoked marijuana in his room.[30] But he was back at the Tonight Show a year later, performing on his 81st birthday.[30]
On April 8, 2004, Dangerfield underwent brain surgery to improve blood flow in preparation for heart valve-replacement surgery on August 24, 2004. Upon entering the hospital, he uttered another characteristic one-liner when asked how long he would be hospitalized: "If all goes well, about a week. If not, about an hour and a half."[31]
In September 2004, it was revealed that Dangerfield had been in a coma for several weeks. Afterward, he began breathing on his own and showing signs of awareness when visited by friends. He died on October 5, 2004–a month and a half shy of his 83rd birthday–at the UCLA Medical Center, from complications of the surgery he had undergone in August. Dangerfield was interred in the Westwood Village Memorial Park Cemetery in Los Angeles. His headstone reads, "Rodney Dangerfield... There goes the neighborhood."[32]
Joan Child held an event in which the word "respect" had been emblazoned in the sky, while each guest was given a live monarch butterfly for a butterfly-release ceremony led by Farrah Fawcett.[33]

Legacy[edit]

UCLA's Division of Neurosurgery named a suite of operating rooms after him and gave him the "Rodney Respect Award", which his widow presented to Jay Leno on October 20, 2005. It was presented on behalf of the David Geffen School of Medicine/Division of Neurosurgery at UCLA at their 2005 Visionary Ball.[34] Other such recipients of the "Rodney Respect Award" include Tim Allen (2007),[35] Jim Carrey (2009), Louie Anderson (2010),[36] Bob Saget (2011) and Chelsea Handler (2012).[37]
In his memory, Saturday Night Live ran a short sketch of Dangerfield (played by Darrell Hammond) at the gates of heaven. Saint Peter mentions that he heard Dangerfield got no respect in life, which prompts Dangerfield to spew an entire string of his famous one-liners. After he's done, he asks why Saint Peter was so interested. Saint Peter replies, "I just wanted to hear those jokes one more time" and waves him into heaven, prompting Dangerfield to joyfully declare: "Finally! A little respect!"[38]
On September 10, 2006, Comedy Central's Legends: Rodney Dangerfield commemorated his life and legacy. Featured comedians included Adam SandlerChris RockJay LenoRay RomanoRoseanne BarrJerry SeinfeldBob SagetJerry StillerKevin Kline and Jeff Foxworthy.[39]
In 2007, a Rodney Dangerfield tattoo was among the most popular celebrity tattoos in the United States.[40]
On The Tonight Show with Jay Leno, May 29, 2009, Leno credited Dangerfield with popularizing the style of joke he had long been using. The format of the joke is that the comedian tells a sidekick how bad something is, and the sidekick—in this case, guitar player Kevin Eubanks—sets up the joke by asking just how bad that something is.[41]
In March 2017, Dangerfield's widow expressed disappointment with a mural that had been painted of Dangerfield in Kew Gardens, his old Queens neighborhood, about a year earlier.[42]
Beginning June 12, 2017, Los Angeles City College Theatre Academy hosted the first class of The Rodney Dangerfield Institute of Comedy. The class is a stand-up comedy class which is taught by comedienne Joanie Willgues, aka Joanie Coyote.[43][44]

Filmography[edit]

Film[edit]

TitleYearCredited asNotesRef(s)
ActorProducerWriterRole(s)
The Killing1956UncreditedOnlooker[45]
The Projectionist1971YesRenaldi / The Bat[46]
Caddyshack1980YesUncreditedAl CzervikAdditional dialogue (uncredited)[47]
Easy Money1983YesYesMonty Capuletti
Back to School1986YesThornton Melon
Moving1988UncreditedLoan Broker
Rover Dangerfield1991YesYesYesRover DangerfieldVoice, Executive Producer, Based on an idea by, Screenplay, Story developed by
Ladybugs1992YesChester Lee
Natural Born Killers1994YesUncreditedEd Wilson, Mallory's DadAdditional dialogue (uncredited)[48]
Casper1995UncreditedRodney Dangerfield
Meet Wally Sparks1997YesYesYesWally Sparks
Casper: A Spirited Beginning1997YesMayor Johnny Hunt
The Godson1998YesThe Rodfather
Rusty: A Dog's Tale1998YesBandit the RabbitVoice
Pirates: 3D Show1999UncreditedCrewman Below Deck
My 5 Wives2000YesYesYesMonte Peterson
Little Nicky2000YesLucifer
The 4th Tenor2002YesYesLupo
Back by Midnight2005YesYesJake Puloski
Angels with Angles2005YesGod

Television[edit]

TitleYearCredited asNotesRef(s)
ActorProducerWriterRole(s)
The Ed Sullivan Show1967–1971YesHimself17 appearances[13]
The Tonight Show Starring Johnny Carson1969–1992YesHimselfFrequent guest
The Dean Martin Show1972–1973YesUncreditedHimselfRegular performer[49]
Benny and Barney: Las Vegas Undercover1977YesManager
The Rodney Dangerfield Show: It's Not Easy Bein' Me1982YesYesHimself / Various
Rodney Dangerfield: I Can't Take It No More1983YesYesHimself / Various
Rodney Dangerfield: It's Not Easy Bein' Me1986YesYesHimself
Rodney Dangerfield: Nothin' Goes Right1988YesYesHimself
Where's Rodney1990YesHimselfUnsold pilot
The Earth Day Special1990YesDr. Vinny Boombatz
Rodney Dangerfield's The Really Big Show1991YesYesHimself
Rodney Dangerfield: It's Lonely at the Top1992YesUncreditedYesHimself
In Living Color1993YesHimselfSeason 4, Episode 18
The Tonight Show with Jay Leno1995–2004YesHimselfFrequent guest
The Simpsons1996YesLarry BurnsVoice of Mr. Burns's son, Larry Burns in the episode "Burns, Baby Burns"
Suddenly Susan1996YesArtiePlays Artie - an appliance repairman who dies while fixing Susan's oven
Home Improvement1997YesHimself
Rodney Dangerfield's 75th Birthday Toast1997YesUncreditedYesHimself
Dr. Katz, Professional Therapist1997YesHimselfVoiced himself in the episode "Day Planner"
The Electric Piper2003YesRat-A-Tat-TatVoice
Phil of the Future2004YesMax the DogVoice of Max the Dog in episode "Doggie Daycare"
Still Standing2004YesEd BaileySeason 3, Episode 2
Rodney2004YesHimselfEpisode aired shortly after his death
George Lopez2004Leave it to Lopez - Life insurance agent - Episode dedicated to his memory

Discography[edit]

Albums[edit]

TitleYearNotes
The Loser / What's In A Name (reissue)1966 / 1977
I Don't Get No Respect1970
No Respect1980#48 US
Rappin' Rodney1983#36 US
La Contessa1995
Romeo Rodney2005
Greatest Bits2008

Compilation albums[edit]

TitleYearNotes
20th Century Masters - The Millennium Collection: The Best of Rodney Dangerfield2005

Awards and nominations[edit]

YearAwardCategoryWorkResultRef.
1981Grammy AwardGrammy Award for Best Comedy AlbumNo RespectWon
1987American Comedy AwardFunniest Actor in a Motion Picture (Leading Role)Back to SchoolNominated
1987MTV Video Music AwardBest Video from a Film"Twist and Shout" (from Back to School)Nominated
1995American Comedy AwardCreative Achievement AwardWon
2002Hollywood Walk of FameWon
2003Commie AwardsLifetime Achievement AwardWon